Empty Life!!!

 Emptiness...

Emptiness is completely different. Emptiness is what remains when loneliness recedes. Emptiness stays. Emptiness does not come and go in waves; it is static. You don’t feel emptiness, you know it. You know that something is missing, but you don’t know what, until that vacant space is filled.Emptiness doesn’t return like loneliness does. Once you fill the hole that emptiness digs, it doesn’t appear again.Emptiness is what you feel when you’re missing a connection. 

What I Feel ?...

" If you feel you don't have a friend 

you deserve, then wait and don't feel Empty"

                                                                                                       

I know this feeling when people celebrate their friends online in cool pictures and posts and you feel that you don't have so many friends, or a true, real friend. I agree that it feels bad, a little alone. I met my best friend in college. Before that, I did have friends, but no one was really special, you know. So not everyone gets real, true friends from childhood. A real friend is as special as real love. And real love is so, so rare. So having a real friend is very, very rare too. I had to wait until college. And maybe, you will have to wait longer. But don't feel empty without a real friend. Don't feel like a loser. There is nothing wrong with you.It's not like you are not cool enough. It's not like nobody would want a friend like you. As the stars decide when you will meet the love of your life, it's the stars that decide when you will meet that one friend, your best friend.

               



Growing up is a messed up affair. We are insecure about almost everything. We almost hunt for our flaws, our shortcomings. Not being popular in a group or not being surrounded by a cool group of people seems like a failure in life. You almost make yourself feel like a loser. And that's where we wrong. Look, you are a damn special human being. You have a heart and soul that sparkles beyond this universe. You are one hell of an amazing person. You are not a beggar here. Anyone would be lucky to have a friend like you. Don't be desperate to make someone your friend. People will come and use you because of this emptiness that you have created for yourself. Be happy with your own company. Give time to your family, your siblings. Work on your dreams, your goals.If there are challenges in your life that are specific, pick one to work on. Set a goal, set a timeline, and pour your energy into small successes that work towards your goal.Try to become the person you always wanted to become. That is growth. This social media circus of friends in a pic or post will not give you a better life. Real life is different. Only a few friends will stay with you. The rest are just noise. So wait until you meet a crazy, pure soul, your soul twin. Don't put your friendship on sale just because you are feeling alone. Your friendship is priceless. 

And remember. You are special. Someone loves you. You can take control of your life if you want to. Just choose to get moving forward on something. Big Hug from me 🤗

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